Note to Self: He’s Only 7 Years Old

I expect a lot out of myself.  From an early age, I have always expected to be the best at what I do.  I don’t know where that comes from.  I just know that’s how I am wired.

When it comes to my expectations for Ethan, I sometimes forget he’s only 7 years old.  He’s an articulate and bright child.  As an only child, he’s spent a big chunk of his life around adults and connects well with them.  

In certain situations, I’ll catch myself getting frustrated with how he’s handling a situation.  Some times I catch myself and remember that he’s only 7 years old.  For those other times I don’t catch myself, I spend plenty of time kicking myself later.

One thing is for sure, I have never placed my unfulfilled personal dreams of glory onto his shoulders.  My dad always emphasized the importance of following my own bliss (to borrow from Joseph Campbell).  I have given Ethan the same gift – to aspire to be his own person.